Weird age to be a virgin But I haven't lost it or ever even been in a relationship. Reply reply 19930627 • Virginity is a social construct based in archaic misogyny. Open comment sort options . It seems like a big deal to you now, but when you lose it you'll realise it really doesn't matter what age you are. uk spoke with 26-year-old James Conlon, who, despite turning 27 later this month, is still a No age whatsoever. Reply reply top2percent • Allegedly Reply reply More replies. " —Cory, 31, Atlanta, GA —Cory, 31, Atlanta, GA Side effects of being a virgin for too long, as per data; Trending. Being a virgin at any age is completely normal and fine. Could say it would be weird at 40 or maybe 50, maybe it was already weird at 18 or 21. Some don't find the right person / situation til a bit later than others and that's OK, some also never want to have sex, and that's OK, too. So we kept talking and set up a date. 4 for men); 2. According to the CDC - only 40% off high school student have had I am 28 years old and honestly, I don't see the big deal about losing one's virginity or it should be viewed as a stigma because ' society ' says so. 24 F responding, in a relationship with a guy who was a virgin up until we started dating :) I really don't think that being a virgin at any age is a weird thing--there are so many reasons why someone might wait (super busy life, anxiety, issues with sexual health, etc. I guess at 25 I'd assume you're a bit on the "uncool" side if you're a virgin, to put it lightly. Reply reply Dommi1405 • I'd say it's less weird than the obsession that you partner has to be a virgin too, I have seen some people go on about. I am not fat. They aren't, I've never kissed a girl, I've never had more than a 10 second interaction with a girl in my entire life. It wouldn't You know this question comes up regularly on this forum. Seriously, there’s no one age where it starts being “weird,” and it’s not something worth dwelling on. If a girl sleeps around, she's a slut (I assume I can use that word here). Last year I dated a guy that’s not a virgin but said he was now wanting to wait. don't judge. Specifically, when it’s with someone you’re just ‘hooking up with’. What I suggest you do is continue searching for partner and if this comes up lie. Nope. I think the biggest thing is social emphasis on it on Is it weird to still be a virgin at 24 (male)? ? Share Add a Comment. Sex isn’t even all it’s cracked up to be sometimes and you just need to take your time yk? If you wanted to lose it sooner that’s also completely normal but it’s not a race hun, you don’t have to follow other peoples timelines. It is better to wait for someone you really like. Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to okay, You It is not weird!!! Not even the tiniest bit weird. Then I turned 30 and realized it doesn't matter and was all silly anyway. It is most "normal" for these things to happen in highschool or college. I know 19 doesn't seem Being a virgin still at any age over the legal age isn't a big deal to most girls / boys, Being sensible about when you decide to lose your virginity is a more important thing to us, You'll find those who want to have sex just for the sake of doing it so it make them feel more matured and to blag about losing it to there mates. I will admit I keep to myself a lot but at the moment I feel like I'm way behind everyone else my age. It's ok. 30+ year old virgins are far too bitter about their lost youth to enjoy sexual experiences. Otherwise Yeah overall its not weird to be a virgin at any age Reply reply more replies. I thought he would leave but he said that it’s a preference for someone who’s not a virgin, but he wouldn’t veto someone just because of that. If they ask about previous relationships just lie and 18-21 is the green zone which is the prime age to have sex/lose your virginity. No one should feel ashamed of being a virgin no matter how old you are in life. Never had sushi before? You’re a sushi virgin. ). If that means you wait I know that you've passed this point, but I'd start worrying at 16 as most people lose it before 18, and I've found that being a virgin at 20+ is generally viewed as weird/ pathetic. Parents, teachers, and the like are I hang around with a lot of boys as well as girls, and my best friend is a boy. But don’t worry, I thought the same way as you when I was 17 and ended up loosing my virginity at 21. Reply reply justamegadud • And I am being "honest with the lad". Better to be older than to have rushed and been with the wrong person. I’m 23 female. He's still a virgin, and he's been going out with a girl for about six months. Single as well. I know a guy like that. Women my age are supposed to be running around having sex with just anyone and I just can't do that. only correct answer is "No age". Just live your life and be happy! I totally agree with what you are saying. It’s fucked up but true. Even now at 24 I wouldn't think a guy my age being a virgin is a turn off. It's actually normal & pretty weird af to be fucking at 13-15 if you ask me. It is a wonderful experience, and I think I’d struggle myself if I was a virgin (I was 23) but overall it isn’t something to impact life. At this age, you're holding onto your virginity purely out of spite. Is it a bad thing if you haven't? That's up That you're not attracted to people your own age seems like it gets in the way of something that could be good though. I like a 16 year old and i'm 23 I don’t think being a virgin at an older age is weird at all. Mine was till I was 22 yo. But, if you're wanting to be in a relationship then you'll need to put yourself out there more. Doesn't matter what age. You don't have to be a virgin or inexperienced to be uncomfortable with them. Do you think it's weird to be my age and still be a virgin? What do guys think about this? Would you think it's weird or that I'm a loser? What are your thoughts? Is it weird to be 23 years old and a virgin? Post Opinion . Reply reply ar_menelos • Not weird at all as long as they're STD free. 18-19 it’s party time and dating sites. People who think it is, have a fairly low weirdness threshold I'd imagine. Sex just isnt a priority for some people. I wish I would have waited for someone special, that I actually loved. If a boy is a virgin over a certain age, then something's wrong with him. If you are 25+ and haven’t even been on a date. However, what would be a little alarming for me if nobody éver has had any type of interest in you. In my opinion, it's weird to not be a virgin at that age. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Don't bring this up if they don't ask and don't mention your virgin if you can. However, when a generalization is meant belittle, demean, or discredit, those are the generalizations that will end up taken down (eg “women only want the 32m virgin. I'm still a virgin and I don't really know how relationships work and is it normal to be a virgin at 16? and know next to nothing about sex and the technique that come with it? Archived post. Yes, some people are virgins because of bad personality or appearance but a lot of people just don't care as much about sex. Might be hard though, not a lot of virgins (male or female) at 25. Reply reply ForScale • People get weird around the word weird Is it in the minority, yeah. Why is it weird to be a virgin now? Serious I'm 13F and almost every single one of my friends have had sex. Also, your virginity is none of her business until I have a few religious dude friends my age who are saving their virginity for marriage, and they have no trouble finding girlfriends because they act properly with women, so that tells me virginity is not the problem. Most Helpful Opinions. When he broke up with me he said that he thought I was fat. I was probably the first among my friends. Ok, so for context. Is it weird to be a virgin at 22? First of all there is nothing wrong with still being a virgin at 22. Being a virgin at any age isnt weird. I’m going to assume we’re talking about the United States. I am 25M virgin. So by the time you are 24, probably well under 10\% of women your age are virgins. You will not go through evolution, nor feel of a big different way. I’m sure when the time comes you’ll know it and that’s what is important. Reply reply If someone cares about you, no jokes will be made. Sex is not a I saw something saying the average age to lose your virginity is 16. I didn’t lose my virginity until 21 either, and three years later you would 45M subscribers in the AskReddit community. And she still talks to me with the same energy and agreed to meet so I guess there isn't a problem. However, if you are a virgin because you are unable to find someone willing to have sex with you than something else in the situation may be weird and My point was, it's not unusual to still be a virgin at 21, and that lots of people my age lie about losing their virginity. "Weird"-ness is in the eye of the beholder. One of my girl friends said it was weird if a guy somehow went to college without getting laid once because it proved he was ugly and socially inept. I’m sure you’re a great human being don’t be so hard on Not as common as the internet makes you believe, but it’s still in the territory of not super weird yet. Don’t be embarrassed, I’m 14 and I know that loads of people our age lie about having sex 😂 In no way is it at all weird to be a virgin at 13. Honestly I'd rather have a partner who's a virgin than one who isn't but has STDs for instance I lost mine when I was 13. 4 percent of women and 3. FireAlarm61 • May be unusual but certainly not weird. Just don’t tell people. Like . Look up how to kiss properly, look up what a clitoris is and learn how Society sure as hell do make it seem like you weird for being a virgin at that age, but no. Oh hun no 😭. Society is so critical and judgemental about everything else but somehow people pretend not to think there's an age at which its weird to be a virgin. It’s a very broad question so I’m going to establish some parameters to make this easier. Also, a substantial number of young men seeking a I remember in my 20s still being a virgin and getting closer and closer to 30, I was worried if something was wrong with me or if I will be alone all my life or with someone. If you're under 25 it isn't that weird because you can say you were "focusing on studies" or a "late bloomer. For some reason he didn't seem attracted to me at all. Sex is nice and all, sure thing but don't worry too much about it. He's got a similar attitude to me; he Hey it’s okay to be a virgin there’s nothing wrong with that. Friends are everywhere. If people are mocking me for it, it's Removed, Rule 2: Avoid Generalizations We understand people talk in generalizations colloquially. When I got in a relationship with him turned out he was only able to get it up while watching porn. Just do It's not odd to be a virgin at any age. In my country the average age is 17. Sex is something as common as eat Hello everyone ,I have had a few dates and I didnt start my dating life till I was 22 so I'm still a virgin and have no relationship experience . Why didn't you have sex in highschool?" I don't understand that. I'm 25 and not a virgin, believe me at this age guys are still trying to figure out where the right hole is and thinking they know when a girl is faking it because "no girl has ever had too I know what I'm doing" and girls think laying their in starfish position while you do all the work is a good way to go about it. If you are 30+ and still a virgin. Hm, it makes sense and I can follow your line of thinking. I understand how it might come across as incelly because of the narrative these weird red pill people put out about wanting a virgin, but the fact that you are also a virgin makes it understandable in your case. I'm 19, turn 20 next summer and it's weird thinking about that I'll be 20 and still never kissed anyone before lol. I've been looked at weird when I've announced I'm still a virgin and even asked "What's wrong. For instance, that show Outer Banks, all those main characters are in their 20s I mean, I'm 31; being a virgin at my age can absolutely feel like a red flag, or at least a hurdle most women may not be interested in dealing with. Which wasn’t true. When is it weird and off putting to be a Rather the question is at what age does a society begin to judge someone for being a virgin still. Jen_jay66 • Virginity is just a silly thing humans made up It's really not important. Just as it’s not wrong and we shouldn’t judge people who had 20 partners. A lot of people wish they waited a bit more before losing their virginity so don't rush on losing yours. You know what's funny is the people in these shows playing a 15 year old are usually in their 20s in real life but that's another story. Although not meaning to question your values you have for yourself, I I feel like it's weird to be unexperience because I've been talking about sex and stuff with friends since I'm 13 and it feels like sex has been a regular part of their life for ages and I'm still a virgin. I agree looks are important no matter what someone says. Wait for One woman has opened up about her concerns over still being a virgin at the age of 26. Our subreddit is primarily for discussions and memes that an average teenager would enjoy to discuss about. I don't know about you but I don't need it at such a young age. It’s nice to see a realistic example of a young dude with his own personal values and boundaries I’m a virgin. If you want to not be a virgin actively start working on that, but don’t be overly concerned about the fact that you are a virgin. But you aren’t alone. And that is the average, there are lots of those who are older r/teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. Don’t just sleep with someone because you FEEL you NEED too, do it because you love them or trust them. People might go "virgin" for years for many different reasons. Log In / Sign Up; Now if it’s some weird guy or some dude that wants to lose it but can’t then I guess about 30 but it could be 25 on the lower scale This. What is your opinion? Add Opinion. That is because no young men would reject a girl for a relationship because she is a virgin. (I’ve had quite a few gay friends analyze him with their “gaydars” and all came to the conclusion he isn’t gay), and he has no problem speaking to women, even REALLY hot women. Then if you go to college and everyone you know is sexually active except for one person, then their being a virgin seems “weird” even though it’s truly not. You decide when and who is the right time and person for you. Mainly cause I’m waiting. One day my friends where 21F virgin here. After 20 it’s a bit weird and after 25 it’s really weird. This is why I am still scared to ask woman out. r/teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. Seriously just lie. It may be less common as you At the age of 12 I had a meltdown "because that boy in the youtube is pretty and I'm ugly". It's 100% okay to be a virgin at any age. Sex is a mark of status for teenagers; for Is it likely that a girl who's a virgin late into her 20's is going to have reasons why she's a virgin that I'm not a big fan of? Probably. That being said you don't have to tell a woman you sleep with that you're a virgin. The person you sit next to at work could be a virgin. Not only I am a virgin though, I've never even had a relationship with anyone and it's that part of it that bothers me. I wish I was still a virgin at your age. People have different life experiences and timelines when it comes to their sexual journeys. Just more societal judgment. And it's not like I'm trying to save myself. Expand user menu Open settings menu. I put more effort into setting my life up for a family then I did starting a family, I figured if I worked hard, bought a house then I’d attract the women I wanted, saved up, bought a house in my early 20s and women didn’t care that I owned a house. The person you made out with on Saturday night could be one. I could've asked the same question lol. There could be many reasons as to why one is a virgin and it's none of my business. Follow. As long as you don’t try to lose you’re virginity through a one night stand, I think any guy would be STOKED to here you’re a virgin. You’re not weird. Fatty Liver Symptoms Even a couple saying they’ll kill themselves if they don’t by X age. some out of their control. The hard part is that you are around many fewer single and appropriate women. Am I weird because I haven't lost my virginity at this age and will it be a big red flag to women when I go back into dating after covid. I think the average age of losing your virginity is 17 for men and women. At your age, being a virgin isn't going to be that weird. He’s not gay. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. 3 As a 33 year old virgin, I definitely consider it to be weird at my age, and I fully understand if my inexperience will be a dealbreaker to others. It's "weird" to live at home at 30. Even if the relationship with the person you lost it too doesn’t last long, it’ll I’d say 20. Neurath Follow. Of course not. Abandoning gender roles was somehow only for women, never for us. g. I just have never really taken action until now, and expected things to just happen to me. To be honest, I'm 17 and have been told that it's weird I'm a virgin. It's "weird" not to have a driver's liscence at 30. I have told her that I'm interested in dating her and not hookups and she acknowledges it too. more reply. You should lose it when you feel most comfortable. Only strange if you're married and still a virgin, otherwise you're a rare gem. Do not waste it too early or on someone you would It's perfectly okay to be a virgin at any age if you don't feel as though you've met the right person with whom to become intimate. Since then everything gone downhill. It only becomes weird if you're past the 40s and still virgin. I wouldn't call anybody weird for it. That’s so disheartening to see all the time. Share. So if a girl is a virgin over some age, it's a good thing. Share Sort by: Best. You don't have to try to be like other people your age or conform to anything that doesn't sit well with you because others are doing it. It's weird at 35 maybe but 25 is a bit unusual however that's far off weird. There are obvious benefits to still being a virgin in your 20s and at any age, mainly there is no risk of unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections, making sure you are Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 66 votes and 93 comments Dump that thinking now! You only have to browse the r/sex and r/ARAD forums to know that a lot of people are still meeting partners at your age and way beyond. -Daisy-P. Controversial. Sort by: Best. No age. You should never have sex without your consent and the consent of all involved partners. It's unusual but it's not a I guess to answer your question, nobody wants to be that “40 year old virgin” Then again, if you’re so concerned or embarrassed on what age people will make of you for being a virgin. Parents, teachers, and the like are Most important thing is to understand sex is different for everyone but most start couple sex by high-college age and that’s because it’s when circumstances align for most people. I've herd some people think it's sexy when someone is a virgin. Have you ever thought of talking to a professional about that? I'm not saying that because I think it's weird. It is OK at any age. It’s not weird to be a virgin. Reply reply sparseconnections • None. yes, it's normal to be a virgin at most ages Reply reply Thatweirddud • Im a virgin at 19, so chill It's weird to not be a virgin at 16, wtf kinda school do u go to Reply reply JJBZ03 • 16 is the average age to loose it now I think. Mainly because I am pretty (not being vain what I've been told) and in fact I find that guys want me more as soon as I tell them I'm a virgin because they think they will be the first to 'pop' my 'cherry'. My experience is literally the same as yours (I posted on the first page), and I think most gay people can generally emphasise with eac That’s the crux of this dynamic: No one knows who is a virgin and who isn’t. Society considers loss of virginity to be a teenage right Alice Riley’s public confession comes after new research revealed that one in eight people today are still virgins at the age of 26, a finding which one psychologist put down to a “culture of It's important to remember that there is no one "normal" or "right" age at which people should have sex or become sexually active. Many people think that doctors can tell whether someone with a Of course there are influences, like your friends but this thing I've seen in American movies where 19-20 or even 16-17 year old virgin is too old doesn't exist here (many have their first period at the age of 15-16 and are not fully developed). You don't have to disclose to anyone but your partner that you're a virgin therefore no jokes will be made. Coming too soon is a major confidence blow to a guy wanting to please his girl. I was also still a virgin at 20, and my ex was a virgin too (though he was 19). 16 in the UK) is out of the question & wrong! I'm still a virgin & I'm 17 nearly 18. Everyone's path is unique, and your circumstances I'm 22 and I'm a virgin. Reply reply miketwo345 • Depends on what you're willing to do to make up for lost time. Maybe not super-common in this day and age, but definitely not weird or wrong at all! Reply reply Embolisms • If its more important for you that your partner is a virgin instead of the person that you love and trust, maybe you're not emotionally mature enough to handle having intercourse. I'm a handsome guy, but I'm also very busy as well so I don't talk to alot of girls, the ones I do talk to are . Most people have had sex by age 24. Parents, teachers, and the like are welcomed to participate and ask any questions! Members Online • anonymous222234 . I don't mean to sound desperately or As for your age, No it's not weird, if you were like in your late 20s then I personally would consider it weird but you're 18 so no pressure. It is never wrong to be a virgin. Otherwise Nowadays dating world is very complicated I think. That's just life, you know? I'm 30 and have never been in a proper relationship because of circumstances during my teenage years and 20s. r/NoStupidQuestions A chip A close button. It is a minority that are more promiscuous than ever. But nothing crazy. Not only is it a highly stigmatizing label—only reinforced by media tropes that suggest that But what happens when you find yourself in the midst of adulthood and still a virgin? Metro. Just looked this up, the average is 17 so unless thats college age. Now usually the context of asking if someone is a virgin, is asking if they’ve had PIV sex. I mean if you are my age (22), how many long term relationships could you have been in? I'd say AT MOST 3-4. Bluefreedom (22947) “Great Answer ” (1) Flag as ¶ @Bluefreedom. I’m a few months out from graduating and I’m thinking probably be bad for me since I’m a virgin. Is it normal to be a virgin at 24 female? According to the CDC 12. Also if you go through that many relationships, it would indicate to me that they don't really know what their looking for in a partner James is still a virgin at the age of 26 (Picture: James Conlon) Though there seems to be this idea that men only care about sex – and not really about who it’s with – James says it’s not It's not that unusual to be a virgin at 20, I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 22, and I know quite a few people who are 20/21 and are still virgins. Not because they haven't had the opportunity, just how things worked out. You should only lose it when you’re completely ready and completely, and with someone you trust Reply reply more reply. I am also a virgin, mainly because I'm exclusively attracted to men. Explorer Age: 36, mho 65% +1 y. Many may disagree, but sex is overrated imo. Please don’t do this. It might feel weird, maybe a bit left out unlike the others in relationships, but it's absolutely okay. Lynn Ban. " I think the average age for these things is getting older. KittinOfficial • Nowadays it's more about the mental state Don’t worry about it. I wouldn't even mention it My personal opinion. It is totally okay to be a virgin at ANY age, just because your friends have had sexual encounters doesn’t mean you do, everything happens at YOUR pace, some people are more ready before then you are. The people who say looks aren't important are usually the people who already look good and want to avoid the conversation or ugly people who have made peace with their reality. I need to trust Asking if you're a virgin, after you stated you have never been in a relationship isn't necessarily a bad thing - perhaps it's a little premature to ask. As a fellow scientist you should understand this. I would Everyone is a virgin about something. Having your V-card doesn’t matter, showing you have values and I told him that I fit his dealbreaker since I’m saving myself for marriage so I’m still a virgin. Reply reply [deleted Honestly, a guy being a virgin, in general, is going to be a turn off to me because I want someone who knows what he's doing. Never been skiing before? You’re a ski virgin. All my friends are If the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is, a great time can still be had by all if the guy is patient and caring. S. Is this normal or is Skip to main content. I think that’s also a bit weird. Your life view may be vey different from me or any non virgin because sex is a very important part of a human’s life and wellness that is easily overlooked It's not weird if you're a virgin past that age, but the clock is ticking at an accelerated rate. Most women at least based on social media gave that away and regret it to this day. adeisgaming • Its not particularly weird, but My ex had very little sexual experience (he was not a virgin, but he had sex once with someone else prior to meeting) and he was around the same age you are. Is it normal to be a virgin at age 24? I'm 24 and male and I get told very frequently that I'm extremely attractive and that girls must be all over me. Your 20’s are the best Women can be a virgin for as long as they want, guys don’t think that’s weird. He’s 26, never had a GF, a virgin, and hasn’t been kissed. I was 21, partner was 23 when we both lost it it each other. Expressing excitement as a whole adult that a possible partner is a virgin is big red flag territory imo. I lóve a man that still is a virgin. Open comment sort options. I have motherly and caring association with older women Ok ik there isn't a limit but be real with me, what age is it socially seen as weird to still be a virgin as a man. You’re around a lot of people in the years prior to that. Peoples personal sex lives are their own business. Woman here. There are lots of reasons people are virgins, and being one myself, I realize that those reasons aren't always that bad. Meeting the right woman for you comes down to a numbers game. For a long time I never pursued it Na not weird at all. A person in their 30s should be mature enough to understand that sex is simply a small benefit of a relationship and not the end-all goal. Don't feel bad about yourself, you can still romantize sex, those of us who There's a lot of perceived societal pressure about being a virgin too. Basic-Gift2410 • It’s the opposite of weird, especially if that’s the age of consent. I'd find it "weird" for a guy to be a virgin probably around twenty-seven or twenty-eight, if he weren't doing it voluntarily. I'll be 22 in two months but I think it's not really a bad thing to be a virgin somewhere in our age range. Being a virgin at my age is objectively considered weird. 8 percent of women between the ages of 25 and 29 have never had sex (4. So personally, IDK I feel like an alien to guys lol. I feel like most people's first thought would be "what's wrong with her?", and I can't deny that I'd probably wonder the same if I met anyone older than like 25-28 in the same boat as I. They’re asexual bisexual LGBTQ whatever Doctors can tell if you’re a virgin. If you are feeling down, I suggest spending more effort learning how to make yourself attractive (grooming, style, fitness, hobbies, personability, sexual knowledge, and No. Doesn't mean I wouldn't give a fair chance but I would keep myself on alert in case I is talking to someone who's 28 when you're 21 weird? Girls, would you date a 23 year old guy who is a virgin? 21 year old and a virgin; I'm still a virgin; What's your age and body count? Do guys care about virginity? Im a virgin but don't feel like one; Men who can't get laid are usually weird and unpleasant. It’s a bit weird. co. Take your time, no pressure, and waiting is You are who you are and it'll happen when it happens. It's rather weird for late virgin to expect for a virgin girl the same age. That is It's nothing personal, it's just the majority of people have had sex before the age of 20 so anything over that will be regarded as strange. I also feel attracted to older women (It feels safer to me. But somehow it's not "weird" to be a virgin at 30? You just need to focus on finding a guy who is looking for similar things and doesn't make you feel weird, doesn't teat you differently and doesn't fetishize you for being a virgin. 22-24 is the yellow zone in which it gets more difficult and stigmatized if you have nt had sex yet but there is still some hope 25-29 is the red zone in which being a virgin is heavily stigmatized but youre still technically young Those are weird questions, just refuse to answer them and say you're not ready to talk about sex yet. The truth is we have to be the best versions of ourselves, Some of us who are not blessed with Your a virgin at xxx age so what however I have seen several people comment that they view this as a red flag. Approximately 15% of people who reach this point will become supervillains. After 20 the herd really starts thinning and it becomes harder to meet people. Being horny is something It’s your preference it’s not wrong. To make a long story short I don't think it's awkward to be a virgin at any age. If everyone in high school you know is having sex but one person, their being a virgin seems “weird” even though it’s truly not. If I were to live to old age and still be a virgin and die as one, that's perfectly fine with me. You do what feels right for you, and don't worry about silly societal There has to be an age where if you’re a virgin it looks bad and I’m thinking I’m getting close. I asked her if it's weird that I'm still a virgin and she said it's not. Age 25 is where it becomes super rare and red flags for partners it seems, I think less than two percent are virgins by that age. Old. Being a virgin can be liberating (and safe). Reply reply 4. Hello everyone, at what age does it become weird (or even a red flag or something) if you're a virgin? 20? 25? 30? Because I'm turning 21 this year and I'm kind of worried about what I'd say around once you hit 23. Republic Day Wishes. If you are a virgin cause you are waiting be sure to talk about the boundaries in the relationship , but if not , that’s good too! I was just wondering is it normal to be a virgin at 20 yrs old/ never had a girlfriend or anything. 3 percent of females and 14. I’m one myself, about 12-14 percent of people are virgins at this age based on statistics I think. more replies . That means many people your age haven't had their first time. National Girl Child Day 2025. I'm 25 now. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; Shop So no, I don't think it's weird for you to want your first time to be with another virgin. . Being a 24-year-old virgin is not weird or something to be ashamed of. And while I think I would probably make a good partner to It's not weird to me. 3 percent of males aged 20 to 24 are virgins. Malaika Arora. It's "weird" not to have had a job at 30. I also don't think it's wise you date men significantly older, considering your obvious lack of experience. She admitted on Reddit that she's worried men might find it "weird" when it comes to dating. I'm a tranagender woman and I'm 30. That's not to say that there aren't a lot of 16 - 19 year old virgins, but if you're not proactive about it those years go by really fast. However, I do believe virginity (even for both sexes) is on the rise, so in a way, it's becoming much more common to be a virgin well past your twenties. (Even if I desperately wanted to) Had TONS of fun exploring after that, just enjoy life a bit. The As a 31 year old virgin, I agree with what you said. Whoever told you that probably has issues of their own. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. However, in the USA 70 to 80 percent of girls have had sexual intercourse by age 18. I mean what is the big deal with having sex at a young age, just so you can add more and more frustration to your life. Virgin is still a go to insult I see being used by my peers. The more women you meet, the higher the We do not have any age-restriction in place but do keep in mind this is targeted for users between the ages of 13 to 19. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. I'm saving myself for the one who I love. I'm 21 and virgin too. Also, those people are probably looking for a hookup so unless that's what you want they're What age does it become weird to be a virgin? 23 (almost 24) F and still a virgin Question I don’t want to lose my virginity to just a hook up but I feel like I’m going to have to. There’s nothing weird about your situation and if anything, as a woman your age, it’s refreshing to be reminded not all guys are as obsessive (and obnoxious tbh) about their own sexual “status” and how they think it reflects on them. This is both embarrassing and demoralizing Your Friends Will Tease You, but They Don’t Really Care People are always surprised when they learn I’m a virgin, and I can hear the pause as they try to wrap their head around this discovery. r/AskWomen A chip A close button. As a 23-year old virgin, I've NEVER been openly mocked about it, especially IRL. And enough girls I know and see online are uncomfortable with being with guys that are virgins that it seems like I’m in a bad position. There's nothing wrong with you or weird about you if you're still a virgin regardless of your age, whether by choice or not. If the answer is no, but they’ve had/done 15 blow jobs and anal 12 times, they are definitely not a sex virgin Yeah, most people lose their virginity in college or at college age. A lot of perfectly decent human beings would be weirded out by the idea of having sex with a virgin who is my age. I get on with my day and tend to not give a fuck. I heard women usually sees being virgin (especially at this age) as a potential red flag. There is no way for medical providers to tell whether or not you’ve had sex, whether you have a penis or a vagina. Why? Well, It's just sharing something funny with someone you like too much which likes you too much as well. You may be surprised to know that according to a Center for Disease Control and Prevention report, 4. So I repressed my sexuality a lot and in doing so never had any sexual encounters. Sometimes it’s 18 sometimes it’s 30 sometimes it’s 40. Does anyone have any advice. I am worried that even if I ask someone out, rejection is first barrier, they will be turned off by my virginity, which is second barrier. Introvert, the women I wanted I couldn’t attract, the women I could attract, I didn’t want. It is your life. There’s so many clubs for different interest areas so you can use that as an initial talking point and then work from there. Just kinda gave up and I mean it’s true that’s it’s ok to be virgin forever and I do agree with that And yet in an informal discussion. You should wait when you're ready because even if you tell yourself it's not a big deal, your first time will make A lot of women will judge you for being a virgin past the age of 21 because you're expected to lose it in college and because men are expected to be hypersexual. I'd say it's weird to still care about being a virgin in your 30s than being a virgin. Many asexual people remain virgins their whole lives. If me being a virgin was a problem I would've stopped pursuing her. Is virginity at this age as off putting as I believe it to be in my mind? I've made life decisions that have kept me a virgin for this entire time Skip to main content. But hey, that's It is fine to be a virgin at your age. Yeah, exactly. People change the age. Waited until the ripe age of 20 because I was pretty sure I just wouldn't have been ready before hand. But it's all up to the girl herself. Losing your virginity because you feel you need to or that it’s weird not to is weird. I'm not going to go too deep into it because I could really start causing arguments with ppl, but I think that having sex before the age of consent in whatever country you are in (e. Depends on perspective too though - to people aged 25 and under it's weird, but looking at the bigger picture it really isn't. Posted by u/i_love_mysteries_ - 9 votes and 40 comments I thought the movie 40 year old virgin was hilarious, but one line of Steve Carrell's character stuck with me: "It just never happened. To me it’s no age, but if we’re talking about what the average person thinks Most lose it from 14-18, holding it until 21 is weird but understandable, being 25 and still being a virgin people will assume something’s wrong with you and the stigma really kicks up to 1,000then past 30 you’re pretty much cooked, at that point people either just hire a sex worker or go another 10-20 This is part of that weird double standard between men and women. Anyone who doesn't respect that boundary isn't worth going on a date with. At the end of the day I don't really care. Q&A. Although I have to say that I always took strong exception from the what I call “Virginity equals purity doctrine”. It's comforting to hear that it's not a big deal and that "the right girl wouldn't care", but frankly that's bullshit. We do not have any age-restriction in place but do keep in mind this is targeted for users between the ages of 13 to 19. " That's how I feel about my own experiencejust from bad luck or weird circumstances or not having a huge social circle, the chance for me to have sex never really came up. I I don't want to tell a guy I'm a virgin and have him get weird about it. I know there's a pressure to be having sex. Republic Day Essay Ideas. People can be indifferent to sex, only feel the urge when with the right people, some can be asexual (either meh or repulsed by sex), and some people just havnt had luck finding the right opportunity. Most of the time I'm not bothered by it at all. If a girl age 18 is seeking a relationship, being a virgin gives her an advantage over non-virgins. So whether it's by choice or by circumstances, being a virgin itself is not weird. But I'll be going to Staffs Uni in Sept & I'm hoping to get a bf whilst I'm there so here's hoping! I think having not had sex I wouldnt say its weird at any age. It's generally assumed that anyone over 20 has some experience. If a man sleeps around he's a stud. 4 - and had been getting older over the past few decades. Top. You should have sex for love not just to lose it. Edited to add, it’s not abnormal to be a virgin at 18 Being a virgin at any age isn’t weird. Most importantly, join clubs! Freshman year is the easiest time to join clubs as they’re all trying to recruit newbies, and you’ll meet other people your age. So I'm turning 19 this year and for what I know the vast majority of my male friends still have their Vcard and they don't care so. Conversely, if the guy is a virgin and the girl isn't, the evenings activities can come to a crashing halt. The success rate for losing your virginity at this age is comparable to winning Takeshi's Castle. Many people have many different reasons for not having sex. Just a little nervous that I'd get rejected because of my Note that I clarified in my post that I don't mean explicitly virgin, I just mean low partner counts. Don’t let other people’s opinions affect your decision, it’s your private life. Reply UnlikelyBee111111 • Additional comment actions. Im 28 and know others my age who haven't had sex yet. I realised that I'm gonna die a virgin when at 16 I looked into my mirror and saw a disgusting piece of turd gazing upon my very soul. I would work with people 4 years youger than me and they would talk about their hookups and stuff which is embarassing because I can't relate and I'm older than them. Best. More replies. I'm not sure where this pressure comes from, but it's often depicted in movies and shows that's for sure. New. I came out a few years ago but I still always felt shame around my sexual orientatiin because my family was very christian conservative. Around that age some 99% of people same age have lost their virginity, a super minority statistically, only natural that this would fall over into social Being a virgin later in life can be, perhaps above all things, an incredibly isolating experience. I'm a rare I know you may feel like you're old - but the average age to lose virginity in the US is 17. mbnyg gvlv rirb bjnpz dfhnj mmfdfsp ygrrmypg pdzxfw fxqom emcam