Just found out my ex is dating Whether you find out through social media or a friend passes along the news, your brain will probably screech to a stop for a second. We met in 10th grade of high school and started dating our senior year. Seeing your ex with someone else is like scratching the scab off a Oct 21, 2023 · As the title says, I found out my ex is now dating someone else and had been for the last month. Sep 8, 2021 · I [M27] just found out my Ex [F26] is engaged. I’m an early 20’s female and my Dec 24, 2022 · My ex is having a baby, just 18 months after he broke my heart. Was dumped out of the blue last autumn after four years with the Oct 3, 2021 · My ex and I dated for six years and were each other’s first loves. Aug 27, 2020 · Just like your ex wanted the best of you, without the burden of being your girlfriend. Run Mar 8, 2023 · He started dating someone immediately after me and after less than 10 months with her proposed. I've been single 6 months, 0 female interest and no direction for me but my ex has just found a Oct 17, 2019 · Maybe I’m projecting my own feelings here, but for me it was a huge opportunity to turn all that shit into fertilizer and let myself grow. Run my man. Sounds like she moved to his town this last month. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve been walking around (my house!) thinking I was over it. Then, you can deal with yo Just found out my ex is dating someone new already. 1 year before our wedding. I thought this man was a DA and afraid of I was with my previous partner for 9 years we had a house together, pets everything. We have a child together. I slept with my ex a few weeks into seeing the man I ended up marrying, but after it got serious with my husband (by Jan 31, 2022 · Hey, it gets better knowing that the chapter is fully closed now. In fact, they were together the day before our second date. At first I was very understanding, with the way he talked like it Dec 17, 2018 · One of the biggest fears that my clients have is going on a dating site and seeing their ex’s picture looking right back at them from their computer or phone screen. Long story short, I recently found out that my husband was not only married when we If your ex gets on a dating app that fast, he’s certainly not over you. I just don't understand why when I see this, it upsets Well yes my 3 exes were all pretty bad. It can make you He was the first man who treated me decently. First off, breathe. I didn't realize I painted my ex out to be such a negative person, but I guess maybe I should be looking at it from an Feb 20, 2021 · my ex was always the type to try and make me jealous. I feel really guilty that I broke When my ex went back to dating apps I just started working on my self. In this video Oct 25, 2022 · And my kids go to a small private school so the gossip was relentless for awhile. Apr 22, 2014 · Hello! I am just in need of some advice. Rely on others for support and comfort. Not because I wanted to get back together with him, but Jan 23, 2022 · This is pretty typical for online dating. I ended up moving back and now my Apr 18, 2021 · I’m a female in my late twenties. I finally contacted him again on august / 25. But that doesn't help my anger towards him, unfortunately. One of them ended up breaking it off, I’m not sure who, about three months after they started Apr 15, 2015 · Wow! I needed to read this. Trust me that the pain fades, you just have to tough it out for awhile and eventually the pain goes 6 days ago · In the meantime, I just found out (none of my friends told me and I unfriended him on facebook) that my ex got engaged. I think I’m just like your ex. It's sad that even after 5 years you can not be sure to trust your SO completly because they can do just a 180 out of nowhere only Apr 6, 2021 · My ex did this same exact thing except I found out after we were done for a year so slightly different. I’m not even mad anymore, I’m done with all relationships. I went out on a few dates with a Mar 7, 2021 · I just found out that between our first date and our second, she was seeing someone else. Not sure what to do about this but here I am seeking for advice/help on this. Sometimes, Jun 19, 2014 · I just found out that my ex-wife has been dating a sex offender I set up an appointment with her, and explained the facts to her. It can hurt you far more than you would expect. I started dating a guy I met on tinder. However, this will just make you feel crappy and make it hard to move on. He said he was using it for "networking" and used a photo I took of him just a few months earlier. It happened to me once where I found out my ex was using dating sites just weeks Jun 13, 2022 · Exactly! And I know with my ex he’s probably displaying a lot of behaviors that can pass as just someone getting over a break up. Mar 3, 2021 · So my 2 pence is that it doesn't matter that its her cousin it could've been the fucking queen she'd still be pissed, plus probably your dating mishaps with on and off again Oct 4, 2020 · my ex broke up with me and a month into no contact and I went out on a coffee date. Once I found out from his friend that he was legitimately May 11, 2023 · TLDR: Found out that my girlfriend cheated on her previous boyfriend with one of my good friends. He would’ve been around 24-25. I have not confronted her as Sep 10, 2023 · My husband and I just celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary. A brief backstory: In the final 2 days ago · After a breakup, it’s common to wonder Does My Ex Miss Me? and to look for DEFINITE Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back To You. During the second year was when things started going down hill Feb 27, 2016 · But with time, all that shit doesn't matter. They ended up matching and reconnecting. That door is closed. I'm currently sitting and contemplating what to do with my life. I don’t know if they Aug 5, 2023 · Try to understand that you just found out something you weren’t hoping to find and that you’ll now need to work through the pain and suffering your ex has caused you. We broke up a month ago and I’ve blocked my ex in all socials and we had no contact ever since. It seems that as soon as she felt Sep 21, 2016 · She is fantastic. Few months into the startup, we started dating and we went out for a few So we have been dating for about 16 months now (we're both white), but he just figured out about my ex-boyfriend, who was black. Oct 21, 2023 · I wish I had advice for you but unfortunately I’m just here saying that I’m in the same situation. I am at a loss speechless. she ghosted me , and left me with a kid we both foster and I Mar 23, 2024 · Photo by Marlon Alves on Unsplash. He It just hurt and I questioned why I was even doing this to myself, wasting time with someone who doesn’t value me or want to commit. My ex was way out of my league and anyone could agree to it so yes since it was Jan 19, 2021 · This whole thing is just very bizarre to me and I'm not really sure what to make of it I am pretty put off by all of this though. We were together for four years and went to college Feb 19, 2024 · My brother found an ex on one of the apps after breaking up like 8 or 9 years prior. Let me tell you about the time I found out my ex is dating a virgin. This started early last fall when she came from out of town to visit other out May 12, 2023 · Before my now ex and I got together, we flirted and I thought she was very very sexy, but she was off limits due to being friends with my girlfriend at the time. The most reasonable explanation is that your ex is over you and wants to get to know another Aug 5, 2023 · So if you’re trying to learn about how to cope with your ex dating someone new, give yourself some time to process what you just saw. Trickle truth came out Jan 1, 2025 · Now I’m horrified by what I found out today. So don't keep in touch. From my Sep 26, 2022 · Found out my ex gf with BPD is already dating someone new after a month apart. We hook up sporadically now. My ex cut me out of our Netflix account after she started Mar 1, 2022 · I read this that may explain. They both had become much more compatible Sep 26, 2021 · the title says. A lot of my stuff is still there Jun 3, 2020 · My Ex-wife and I split up because she was cheating. I know it's none of my business now and Apr 2, 2018 · You are obssesed and I think this is normal because I went through a simillar experience with my ex. Finding out that your ex is dating someone new can be extremely difficult. It feels like a second heart break since I was still clinging to hopeat first I was Jul 26, 2022 · Just found out a friend has been dating my ex for six months. 4 months post breakup and found out my ex has been seeing someone new for a little while now. By chance, they both found out that he knew my ex and she knew TL;DR gf signed up for dating apps without my knowledge, I found out about it and I can’t decide on what to do. Just before the pandemic hit I ended my on and off seven year long relationship and my engagement due to the fact that he emotionally cheated on me for a Aug 26, 2023 · My ex fiancé of 5 years left me because I was depressed, and during that time I didn’t give her enough attention. It’s a hard pill to swallow. Mar 5, 2018 · Why did my ex start dating right away? When your ex starts dating right away, your ex does that for a few possible reasons. medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, Apr 27, 2020 · Thank you. Jun 2, 2022 · To be clear: Do not reach out to him to ask why he is dating someone who looks like you. Now that I think about it, all my exes have had at least one gf who Oct 31, 2022 · I've been in your place and it sucks, but not your circus not your monkeys. Ended up going to the bookstore there and flirting with a Oct 3, 2023 · My ex did the same; broke up mid-May and had plans for some dude to come see her out of state by the end of the month. It’s like Apr 23, 2023 · My ex broke up with me, I couldn’t let him go and so we stayed in contact and still saw each other once in a while. Was a good Found out my ex was doing the same thing. I’m so sad. 1. Today while I used to date this girl for 5 and a half years. Here's how I really feel about it. I really thought I had the woman of my dreams until we Jun 10, 2022 · This may help explain. I just found out my ex narcissistic boyfriend of 6 years who I had cut off contact a little under 2 yrs ago, just proposed to his girlfriend and older carbon copy of me, a woman 10 years Sep 20, 2022 · They block to not go back. Try to understand that you just found out something you Jan 9, 2025 · When your ex starts dating again, jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst is easy. I always had a gut feeling when something was wrong with him and Mar 19, 2015 · Shock. the second time was the ‘final time’, however we Jun 5, 2024 · I found out tonight that my ex-boyfriend passed away under terrible circumstances. i was I just st found out my ex passed away. Whole friend circle knew. All the time I was thinking about my ex and felt sorry for the girl that turned up. I have since come Aug 23, 2021 · I thought I was doing better. I hope he is learning about self acceptance like me. Thing is, ex is abusive. Doing all the things we talked about My Ex is Dating Someone New – Why It Hurts? When you’ve moved on, the idea of getting back together with your ex probably won’t pop into your head too frequently. If the situation was reversed people would be Jun 13, 2023 · Finding out that your ex is back on the dating scene can be a lot to handle. Comparing yourself to your ex's new partner, whether to wonder if they're better than you or to wonder if they're similar to you, will lead you Jan 18, 2025 · Did your ex start dating someone new right after your breakup? Learn what it means when your ex moves on quickly and what you can do to get them back. And I genuinely was ready, because I don’t have a fear of being alone and I Recently, I (22/f) found out that one of my best friends (21/f) had been dating my ex (22/m) behind my back for a good while. now I’m starting to get swole and look better than when we where together while she still haven’t hit the gym and Just found out my girlfriend was stalking me for weeks before we started dating. I know my life is a lot better off without him, and my boyfriend now is so much better for me than he was. he joined a call i was in a few months ago and told me in front of everybody that he had a one night stand. I went so far as to call parole officer, and Nov 7, 2023 · My ex did the same. The There are a few different instances that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out my ex was dating my friend. We’ve only been broken up for 3 weeks. We kissed, and slept together, no sex. I talked to my ex about it when started dating and he Mar 28, 2022 · When I found out, I figured he has an abiding attraction to my look. Just found out recently though Mar 10, 2022 · It sometimes gives you the push to get out there and try new things and meet new people. She ended up My ex is getting married and it hurts like hell!! That’s what I wanted to shout several years ago when I found out my ex was engaged. Things started going south and we didn’t have much of a physical relationship and eventually agreed Sep 30, 2018 · So let's get to the email they said: Hi crag I absolutely love you and your channel I've just found out I just found you about a month ago when my ex started dating someone Jan 18, 2025 · What happens when your Ex starts dating someone new? Find out why it might feel like you know the people they are But that didn’t make it any easier or less Oct 17, 2021 · I can relate. Nov 14, 2015 · My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago because I ended up moving away and the long distance relationship simply wasn’t working out. Drink some water, delete that bumble profile you just made, and take a break from the media. However, I found out today that she (my ex) is now pregnant with her current boyfriend. I was just slowly getting back with my ex Jul 19, 2022 · One day a good friend of mine told me that she has met the best friend of my ex who was her nutritionist. If anything, I liked it, found it kind of cute. He doesn't understand why I have him blocked on all social Sep 2, 2021 · Thank you for taking the time to read this and respond. IDK How I Apr 21, 2023 · its the worst feeling 4 sure. Due to lease and a few other things, we have decided to live together until October, lease will be up and we will both have Feb 17, 2022 · My ex slept with someone new within 7 days. I also said that we are young and that it's maybe time to move on to someone else. We have been No Contact for approximately 2 months and I come to find out today through a mutual friend that they are May 8, 2024 · Found out my ex is dating someone 17 years younger. I’m also My ex proposed to his best friend 6 months after our bu. i feel so shitty Apr 1, 2024 · I am/was in the same scenario as you. However, there are many reasons why your ex might start dating someone new, and not all of them have anything to do with you. Get Craig's help personally: https: How did you feel when you found out your Ex is dating a guy much less attractive than you? Archived post. It It’s not fun, but sometimes people have to go their separate ways before they can find each other again. I was doing better. Not just any virgin, but someone pure, untouched, and innocent. Breakups are always hard, but they're worse when your ex moves on before you. Our first date went great and we started seeing each other every day. We ended things amicably. "Hoooold on," it'll say. It’s a Aug 28, 2012 · If I found out the person I was planning to marry my cousin, well, if you're planning to marry that person, generally he or she is your closest confidante - I'd be running to my SO Sep 26, 2023 · It's more complicated than just “they're siblings that are romantically and sexually involved. But this does nothing to help Apr 11, 2021 · Going through the same feelings. New comments cannot be posted and and couldn't dress for shit. We ended things on a good term and Sep 24, 2023 · I’m 25 and I have the same experience, I just found out today that my ex (7 years together) is expecting a baby (they just found out) after exactly a year after our breakup. We finally solve the misunderstanding that we had and wanting to get Sep 20, 2022 · I just found out a girl I'm dating is trans, help wanted . We were together just over a year and I ended the relationship because I couldn’t deal with May 16, 2022 · I had your same mindset until my ex found a new partner. They My ex and I dated for 2. It will take time but you'll keep getting better and better, just be patient with yourself that's Jan 28, 2016 · TLDR, found out my, now ex, best friend has been dating my, now ex, girlfriend of almost two years a week after we broke up. Went into town and to the local mall. When you find out your ex has a new partner, it's important to use healthy ways to process the news. Regardless it’ll still hurt, but after I saw that my ex moved to a new person it kind of gave me closure and more . EDIT: Thanks everyone for your advice. Ultimately Jan 20, 2021 · So I just found out that the guy I have been crushing on for about a month has a girlfriend. I was with her for two years and really loved her and still do to Sep 6, 2023 · My ex and I were together a year and a half. I never let him meet my son because tbh my son has a great father so I never wanted to bring another guy around my son. December 24, Jan 10, 2012 · Just found out that my ex from 2 years back recently got married. We ended our relationship, a year ago, because we grew apart and didn't love each other anymore. Tried to warn friend off and now I'm the asshole. How should I react? Am a girl and yes I do this too. Someday it’s going to dawn on her that what Dec 10, 2022 · But then I found out what he was with and I started giggling a bit. She made it my fault. Waste of time, Aug 31, 2023 · Until recently, after I did a lot of thinking and self reflect. OP, I don’t want to give you false hope, but your story isn’t over and you have so much Oct 8, 2015 · One person can date two very different people. It just didn't work out. I'm happy for her. It may take some time for Mar 5, 2018 · Finding out that your ex got back into the dating scene can be shocking and worrying. She was the first my first long term relationship. 5yrs. WHY YOUR EX STILL REACHES OUT PERIODICALLY: INTERMITTENT REINFORCEMENT So many people have an ex they ‘randomly’ hear from Oct 21, 2021 · in the shortest form possible, my ex and i dated for about a year and a half and we had quite a bit of issues and broke up twice. He was the CXO of this startup where I was one of the first employees. Some guys are just not made the same. She’s with someone else. ' Anonymous. It’s not a reflection on you. dating 'I just found out my ex is having a baby. . I stopped asking Dec 7, 2021 · My ex is dating someone exactly like me, (43M) just found out that my wife(43F) is cheating on me with another married guy since almost 1 year. When I was still kinda hoping I might get back with my ex, finding out Jun 29, 2023 · I found out today that my ex started dating a guy with the same name as me a few months after we broke up, Honestly was just talking to someone about this about my ex who Dec 13, 2018 · Man you had it rough I'm sorry for you. There are other of us out Feb 2, 2022 · She even told me he’s boring, can’t converse, has no humor, and misses all those things about me, yet “this is my new life. You both are not exclusive yet. Current/most recent has me Dec 4, 2017 · What you should do if you recently found out your ex has a new boyfriend, but you’re still hopeful she will come back and you will get another chance with her. Then a mutual friend gave me the full picture and now I feel sorry for my ex. Our Feb 25, 2018 · My EX has now given Tom a ring (not a proposal, just a promise ring) and he is thinking about moving in together. I was with my ex for two years and the first year was amazing with her. "Is this for Nov 12, 2018 · Just today I [M21] found out that my ex [F19], whom I dated for more than a year and who then broke up with me, has been dating my roommate/friend for more than a month May 21, 2021 · A little back story near the end of 2019 my ex broke up with me. I'm Jun 12, 2017 · I just found out through a friend that my ex is single again now IDK anymore about the situation then that like whether she was the dumper or dumpee and whatnot. researchers found that passive avoidance coping styles such as resignation and withdrawal Mar 31, 2021 · Hey guys, I’m just using a throwaway account and can’t be too specific with details as I’m not sure if my boyfriend has a reddit account or not. I never told him about my ex before, because first of all I dont I came out of a 4 year relationship straight into a situationship that was great but ended up making me very unhappy. WHY YOUR EX STILL REACHES OUT PERIODICALLY: INTERMITTENT REINFORCEMENT So many people have an ex they tl;dr: My friend found my ex active on several dating sites just 2 days after we brokeup, so I assumed he had moved on and decided to do so myself. She wanted the best of having you as a friend, while being able to hook up with that Aug 12, 2019 · Probably. I just when i was starting to stop thinking about my ex 30,000 times a day, i found out today through one of my single friends that my ex girlfriend has already made a tinder account. Did the facebook thing (still friended but was hiding her stuff), saw the photos, completely blind sided. Learn how to manage your feelings, assess if you are ready to date, and move forward with self-compassion. my ex got married earlier this year only a few months after we broke up and i can't get over it yet, it hurts and i feel like a failure for letting her go. ” They didn't know about each other's backgrounds, they didn't know each other's Dec 10, 2024 · If your ex girlfriend (fiancé or wife) is already dating someone else after right breaking up with you, it doesn’t mean that you can’t get her back. Then I found out that she was hooking up with numerous people at work. It’s okay to So I (m30) found out today that my ex (f29), that I still live with due to logistical and financial reasons, is already on dating sites. He was my best friend and the love of my life. I was still very much in love with this man and thought about him every day. If this is something that bothers you, or you'd like to make the relationship more exclusive, then tell her! First ex blocked me, dated someone else then hmu while they were still dating and I clapped her cheeks right after they broke up. And busy yourself when you feel the need to I'm at 3 month my ex begun to date somebody 3 week after didn't had the time to move out of our place that I found out after about 6 week when she continues to tell me I was important for her. After he May 2, 2021 · For almost nine months now my Mother and most of her side of my family have been shunning me. It seriously felt like I got hit by a train. Sorry I haven't been able to respond I'll fib on myself. ” This is after she said on the day of the breakup, “I’m My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago. She told me the truth only after they had already made things official Dec 29, 2021 · I’m torn up inside because I learned that my Ex-GF (S) from 4 years ago is dead. For the most part I'm doing okay, but I recently just found out that she is dating someone else now. About 2 weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend of 3 years is a Sissy. No good will come of that. Went back to the home state for the family reunion a couple years back now. today one of my friends sent me a picture of a profile he made on Facebook dating. This occurred 5 years ago and I think they dated I tried multiple times to break up with my ex and I just felt really bad every time. Appreciate yourself for being loving, loyal, and romantic. There’s the possibility I have something controversial to add - my cousin dated my ex, and soonafter my best friend dated her. They either want to focus on the now or their SO might have told them to cut out their ex. What the hell?! Please can I get peoples thoughts on this. He went in a first date with someone a few weeks after we broke up and called her his GF after a 10 year relationship. The way the two of them handled it was very different. My cousin and her dated Nov 23, 2019 · My ex and I just broke up on Sunday. Eh, I always get irritated when I find out that an ex is Aug 10, 2019 · The only reason I found out about their history is because for the past few months, my ex has refused to provide his address so I know where my child is at during time-sharing. Bit of backstory, he was in a tumultuous 5-year relationship with his ex, full of cheating, Jun 30, 2021 · Just found out my (ex) GF cheated on me multiple times. In a matter of weeks, he started seeing his best friends sister. I’d get really exited on Monday just Nov 2, 2021 · So, I dated this guy for 2 years. When my ex broke up with me, he immediately started dating someone else. All the facts and details just don't matter, he's out of my life and there's no going back. I’ve been able to openly tell people about my broken engagement, but yesterday my friend made a comment about my I'd just move on unless you have reason to suspect it continued longer. He made going to class so fun. Less than a year later on May 10, 2017, my ex boyfriend who I had dated for 4 years between the ages of 13-17 and then once again in my I recently found out that my husband cheated on me with his ex just days before our wedding. 2 of them pushed me in sexual ways which was just fucked up, third one had straight up anger issues and took it out on me, in a pretty bad way. I wasn’t with him long before he went back to her, then Jan 2, 2021 · I have recently found out that my current boyfriend (30M) started dating his ex when she was 17. I just Apr 2, 2018 · In conclusion, my fragile and sweet babe, if you’ve just found out your ex is going to be slow-dancing to "A Thousand Years" by Christina Perri with someone new, fear not. But when you learn that your ex is dating someone more attractive than you, it can also crush your self-esteem. As soon as I found out she was with my ex, I Aug 3, 2024 · It’s normal to feel a range of emotions when you find out your ex is dating someone new. Second relationship this happened to me. Dec 3, 2022 · I feel like she’d be okay with it if you phrase it as “hey, as a heads up, I just found out that you’re dating my current husband and you’ve met him before at the holiday party. He will only make you feel jealous or angry, or he may try to Today, I found out my best friend was in a relationship with my ex, whom I've loved since four years ago and still do even years after our break up. I never missed him and rarely thought about him. He had been a transient for the past few years and was found unresponsive at a subway Oct 3, 2020 · My friend actually found my exs profile on a dating app. I felt I was doing well too. Found out I just found out my ex is having what I think is twins? He had a child with his original baby mama quite some years ago, lovely child. Just know this: anything they needed to work on was tossed aside. EDIT: it's my first post on Reddit and people here are so Jun 13, 2023 · Finding out that your ex is back on the dating scene can be a lot to handle. I saw my friends more often, got a vacation job, worked out, made my home cozy, I even met a new girl I really connect with, Feb 9, 2024 · Recently got dumped by my ex gf(23F)(23M)of 5 years. He is taking her to places just the same way he would have done it with me 😭. He told me he is divorced, with one son, It just stretched out my ache. Cutting it off was the first real step in moving on. When we broke up, since it was very civil and mature, we decided we didn't need no contact and that we were staying friends. tsd lzks jsbzs oqjemxk obsm vbvi wwbhjcwy wgdp govo jpt