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He unmatched me after date Met a girl on bumble and after a day or two of messaging we decided to grab dinner after work. Trying hard not be down on myself. If he was interested, he would have reached out first. Now I wasn’t mad she had a Tinder account in of itself. The second date was so great, so towards the end I gave him my number cuz we’ve been only using the app to communicate. Curious what you found out by text that turned you away from the date. The next morning he gave me a really nice kiss goodbye. Worst part ishe un-connected on LinkedIn and now you never know what doors might have closed! Should've unmatched him right after he had to talk about his boner in the second message he sent. Facebook. He got banned/Tinder glitched and will still show up. Two days later, (yesterday aka my birthday), he requested to chat with me on Facebook messenger. This is about to be a long comment so prepare for that if you’re interested 😂 I took a risk with seeing him, because on our third date he told me his last relationship ended 3 months prior to us meeting. Always wondered what exactly do guys hope to achieve with using their dick as a conversation starter Reply reply [deleted] • Comment deleted by user. What matters is the results/conclusions. Back to yesterday morning (so the day before our date) I check my message and see that she unmatched me. Wtf? Was it because I waited too long to respond, was it because I did not hookup or was it because he was not interested? If it's the latter I thought that was insane he said that after three weeks of texting me nonstop. I find it's easier to mention being nervous and laugh it off so you don't have to spend the rest of the time pretending you aren't. A few weeks before I deleted Hinge, someone unmatched me after I mentioned going to the art museum as a possible future date idea, and I presume that she was expecting me to just ask her on the date (I wasn’t ready to), and I was like “oh shit, she unmatched me! Well that’s weirdand that doesn’t feel good” but it only took me 5. One time, I said a girl was cute (which was a lie), she laughed and then unmatched. She got to the coffee shop well before I did (and I was even 10 minutes early), so I didn't have a chance to pay for her drink, but the date started with a nice After a first date that I thought went well, I was unmatched in the parking lot. Men, Is that true? Men, Is that true? He unmatched me after the first date. If someone So I messaged him on tinder and ask how he felt last night went. First time I'd considered I just came from meeting the 2nd guy and he unmatched me right after the date. What do? EDIT: Not sure why I am getting down voted for asking a dating question on a dating reddit. I asked him about it and he admitted that he did unmatch with me. The best date of my life was amazing! He ghosted me on our scheduled second date. Best. Genuinely quite surprised as given the level of ease and conversation between us, felt like he could easily tell me that he wasn’t keen if that was the case. I asked her out and she said sure when her schedule gets better next month. Every other time has been because the person wasn’t interested and didn’t want to He works a bit of an odd schedule, doesn’t get off work until after 9p. Ouch. Nope, instead he UNMATCHED me????? Wtf????? Like he told me I was hot and that I was amazing and everything and seemed genuine. 😳 I’ve read that a man knows within minutes of meeting if we’re going to go well. (Not that i ghost I (24F) went on a first date last night with this Hinge guy (22M). more reply. It’s He unmatched with me almost immediately after Archived post. If he responds, I'd try to have a conversation, and then casually integrate the question I matched with this guy around thanksgiving and we chatted back and forth a bit and talked about going on a date. I don’t know if I’ve been on two dates with a guy, and we switched over to text. She said it sounds cute and agreed. I snapped her right after we left and said I enjoyed our time So the title says it all - I was on there to show a picture of him to my friend but noticed he unmatched me. Conversation is really easy with him and he’s probably the most conventionally attractive guy I’ve dated. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. The last 3 days coming up to Valentine's date, she sent me Went out on a date with a guy and we had a really nice time, laughed a lot, great conversation, and at the end of the night he kissed me - twice. I get that a lot of guys turbo-swipe and that accidental right-swipes happen, but it’s just happened soooooooo many times to me that I figure that it can’t be a coincidence I (24F) went on a first date last night with this Hinge guy (22M). He slept over (no sex though). Maybe he unmatched you, maybe he deleted his account, maybe his profile reset itself and he lost all his matches (seen this happen before). he picked the time and place. It’s common to date multiple people so maybe one of his other dates became more serious Reply reply sibila92b • He unmatched me either before or right after the date which was an And we had an amazing time. I found it a little strange, like I know there's nothing wrong with me but it was a bit of a kick in my self-esteem especially joining the dating scene again. Sharing conversations Guy unmatched after third date . So I'm happy, she's cute and is interesting and she's down to have a coffee with me. Girl unmatched me after setting up date time and place? Okay, I've got a weird one. Reply reply more reply More replies. Reply reply [deleted] • Very good point. University is still school. I get attached to the familiar. . He replied I had a great time too but never said anything about second date or send me a text message. he is currently out of the city and might take another few weeks to come back Today when I opened bumble I saw that our chat over there is deleted. It happens, ignore and move on. Unmatching you on We have a date planned for this week but I just went on Bumble and realized that he unmatched me. The second was 'Okay, that works well for me, I'll text you in the morning babe ()'. I was supposed to have a date today but she unmatched me After our third date he was hinting at being exclusive. And didn't text me, just unmatched me. " When it comes to women, most men have abysmal social Tl;dr: agreed to a date (we'd settled on a day and a neighborhood), and was promptly unmatched. r/OnlineDating A chip A close button. more replies. Dude, even if you don’t have the self awareness for most of the other red flags here, surely the fact that you’re 22/23 or whatever and have to ask your parents for date money is maybe something to consider I kept opening my Hinge app typing how much I enjoyed the date and wanted to see him again but never clicked send until after 24 hours passed. This exact thing happened to me, had a few dates, he was lovely, but not A guy messaged me first on tinder and then less than two hours later, he unmatched me. He sent me a totally uninspiring "hi". Then a (different) date Skip to main content. Or ask him to be exclusive if you feel ready for that. Me (21F) and him (22M) haven’t put labels on ourselves yet, but he paused his profile (as he said) and I deleted mine. Shortly after she unmatched me and I have no idea why. So me and a guy have a date today. However, we’re still texting all day and planning to see each other again, is this is a stretch or is it a bad sign? I’m most likely overthinking lol Archived post. So, after chickening out once, I decided to bite He's a cat fish and didn't have the balls to tell you. What I didn’t like was how she lied and was accusing me of “playing her” all because I had plans and offered to reschedule a date. Funny, this just happened to me. And many ghosted. After exchanging numbers, we texted back and forth and he asked if im free on I have never been unmatched before a date, does seem odd. Would it be weird for me to ask him if he did? Would add a joke after to lighten the tone Archived post. He sent me his number last night and said he was excited for drinks, I grabbed his number but Unmatched after date. Ask Lipstick Alley. We chatted on the app everyday almost every hour. I noticed last night that he had unmatched me on bumble. it says that he has unmatched me Plus, I just wasn’t feeling it anymore after a while. I was just trying to be thorough 🤷🏼‍♀️ . We had a great first date and are still talking. I was attracted to him a lot also. Today I only said it’s Friday and I continued working and I just found out I was unmatched. When we hang out, he always gives me his full attention. What happens after them is what matters most. If you don’t want to report or block them. Thank you for your response! See I thought about that to and I was wondering why he didn’t just delete the app idk. Just don’t message her again too soon. I'm really only looking for fun right now, so I replied and asked him if he wanted to hook up. Is it common for guys to unmatch their dates on Bumble? I have never seen this before (the last time I was on dating apps was over 5. I thought maybe it’s because he already has my number? But I have a lot of close single female friends and two of them have confirmed they matched with him on bumble after my three dates. He sent me a message “hey it’s _ from okcupid. New. He’s texted me a few times over the last couple Yea, the first time i noticed was after a date And it went well. So, after chickening out once, I decided to bite the bullet and go for it. Can y’all think of any reason he would’ve done this??? Did he think I wasn’t good looking enough or Rejection Text After First Date, Felt No Spark After First Date, He Unmatched Me After First Date. Planned dates with three, one blocked me, one deleted his account, the third just ghosted. When I saw our conversation after a couple dates I saw he was a deleted user. He will be the super old/600 pound guy in the car backed into a space in the corner. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me In one after a first date, where she said we should hang again, but unmatched me after. After 3 days wondering if he’d reach out and say anything on the app or via text, tonight I see he’s unmatched me. I’ve been talking to this guy for two months now. Thanks again for a nice night!’. I’m just confused right now and hurt I checked the app a day after our date and she was no longer on the list of my matches. Only once with my now boyfriend he delete his account and told me he had. More replies. So I’m guessing he unmatched me? Why would he do this? We’ve gone on three dates and he’s been texting me and we’re planning on meeting up again next week. He was beginning to feel like a great friend — almost like that work bff type of feel, so I know it has an end date, but I’m just bummed if this is it because even though I know he might not be 169 votes, 47 comments. secretpanda. I was a bit taken aback by how sudden it was but we wished each other well and went our separate ways almost immediately. All the guys that were interested told me they would like to see me again either during the meeting itself or they contacted me right after we met to let me know they wanted to see me again. I didn't want to come across as clingy or possessive so I told him to explore his curiosity. I also So I didn’t even want to go on this date because I’ve been not feeling well mentally but I tried to muster the energy. Subject: Unmatched prior to first date OLD. Then after he matched with me, I looked at his profile and it said something like " be fun, flirty, and sexy enough for me to show off. He wants a relationship and I’m in the same boat as you. This week he is traveling for work with his dad until Sunday. On the first date he was talking about the future, and he was very promising, we had a GREAT connection and I felt like I knew him for This is mainly for HingeI’ll send a “Like” to a dude, and he will match and I’ll message. Does that mean he unmatched me but kept the account? I know if you delete your account the convo moves to the bottom 237 votes, 31 comments. I get that a lot of guys turbo-swipe and that accidental right-swipes happen, but it’s just happened soooooooo many times to me that I figure that it can’t be a coincidence As a woman, I think 4-7 responses is still pretty fast. OP posts: See next See all Quote Thanks Add post He unmatched me after that last message 😂 Archived post. 5. Unmatch after date??? Bumble Matched on Bumble and exchanged numbers. So it really I had three decent dates with a guy. We told each other that we’d just be honest about how we feel and that’s what i Tinder match unmatched me after he met me this outfit without any explanation. The day I deleted mine, he asked me if I unmatched him which means he’s pretty active. Maybe it was harsh but I went with my gut. A community for discussing the online dating app Tinder. Additional comment actions. I’m new to the dating world so this is stressing me When someone deleted me online after a date that meant I wasn’t going to be seeing them again. After about a week of talking, we exchanged phone numbers and Snapchats and haven't talked on Hinge since then. Open comment sort options . We setup our first date after a few days of messaging. My best guess is it's number 1. He mentioned he’s quite occupied and suggested we go on another date once he’s done with it. What might of happened? Maybe he just kisses I had a guy ask me on a date. more replies . And honestly, he did me a favor, because he wasn’t in the right dating mindset. He's a cat fish and didn't have the balls to tell you. I would test it out But i deleted the app yesterday because I started seeing someone seriously and i’d feel awful downloading it again even for this reason. shreddy5050 • You were condescending. I think it went well overall. " He unmatched me after this lol 2. I’ll go back and check to see if he responded but then later I’ll see that the message is gone, so I’m sitting there thinking he unmatched me. Are they expecting me to respond that fast? He feels like he felt he was entitled to my time. I’ve been freaking out thinking he’s back looking for someone although his reasonings for our ending relationship is he wants to put everything into his career and not waste his 20’s therefore not ready nor emotionally available for a committed relationship like he thought. The date went well and he asked to kiss me multiple times which was fine. It was a Now I have dated quite a few girls and can usually tell if shes really into me or just not. Fantasising and Hooking Up with Coworkers. Reply reply CrackTheSkye1990 • Yeah and I’m not trying to sound pessimistic but more realistic. I (35f) matched with him (29M) on Tinder after he super-liked me. I rather they walk away sooner than waste time and get my heart broken later on. We matched again this week and chatted again, and talked about getting drinks this weekend. So I messaged However, I noticed after the second date, he unmatched me on Bumble. so now I’m holding back tears and try 3 options: he bailed and found someone else to go on the date with / he didn’t get a response so assumed he was being ghosted / he accidentally unmatched (I’ve done it before) Edit: based on rereading your post it sounds like you took too long to confirm and he unmatched to avoid being ghosted. He never texted me after the date. So now he’s the guy who was really interested until you said you don’t do hookups, and then he shut down and unmatched within 10 min of ending the date. This guy is clearly not interested but he is nice. We were just waiting till she was back at her uni before we met up. Share Sort by: Best. He unmatched me after that. But I was bored and wanted excuses to check out new restaurants. It’s been good, sometimes i feel like he holds back a lot or like it’s taking him time to get really comfortable which i get but i would really like to see him when he’s just not shy sometimes. 2-3 days later, I see her on Tinder. Guy probably changed his mind or Like immediately after hanging out the first time he asked to see me again, why would he do that if he didn't want to see me again? I don't know this post is mostly just to complain since I was kinda looking forward to our date which clearly can't happen now. Don't overthink it! We matched on tinder and mainly talked on WhatsApp. There were some awkward moments but the night ended with a hug and she said she wanted to see me again. We still texted and then she's like Before you make a comment say it back to yourself and ask “how would I feel if someone said that to me?” But honestly texting isn’t even close to IRL. Turns out he’s a total sweetheart and I’m glad we connected. I'm sure this question gets asked a lot, guess I'm just looking for some commiseration. We’d been chatting for a couple days prior, and he asked me to dinner. She told me she was just seeing me and didn’t have a tinder account (we met on Happn). Sort by: Best. 1 4 1 girl6_nyc. Reply reply IJN-Maya202 • That’s happened to me once before. report. He got cold feet and is in his mom's basement crying today. When I got on the app, I found he had unmatched me. I went to check something on his profile a couple days ago, and noticed that he unmatched me on the app. Criticism Wanted Share Add a Comment. InflamedLiver • I hope you weren't interested because it sounds like the offer was to do some sweaty grappling on the ground. I've been unmatched a few other times after making a variety of comments. If he did, I would have responded immediately. Shit happens. It could also be you werent fully comfortable with Usually if he unmatched you it means he either wasn’t interested or perhaps he deleted the entire app but that usually only happens when they meet someone and a good both agreed to delete apps. It really He unmatched me but is still texting me . Anonymous. I hid my profile since I personally don't like talking to more than one person at the same time. Top. It worked for me once (I even got on a date and hook up with her afterward). Plenty of people post on here that their date unmatched and blocked their number after ghosting or even worse, standing them up. I usually like to have a light conversation over like an hour and have the guy ask about meeting up when the conversation is naturally dying down, but that’s just my preference. On Hinge, matched with a girl, we had maybe 8-10 messages back and forth. So, I went out with this guy about six times. I’m confused as to why guys unmatched me after they get my number. Pretending that it doesn't or that what he said was "judgmental" is just dumb. ManicD7 • • Edited -Fake/scammer account. I’m assuming that maybe he went out on a date this past week (or even last night) since I’ve been out of town and maybe he hit it off with another girl or maybe he just unmatched me because he wants to explore other options but didn’t want to tell me that He unmatched me but we're still talking . Then today I found out that he unmatched me on Hinge (we moved to messengers after the first date), I think he did it this week, cause I'm pretty sure the chat was still there last week. And obviously I took this screenshot before he even unmatched me, or else I wouldn’t have it. He wants a relationship and After only one or two dates that is part of the reason. The date was scheduled for tonight, and we had exchanged messages throughout the day, agreeing on a time. He still showed up and we had a great time. Also it was raining like crazy so we decided to cut short the date after 2 hours since she lived far away. Can someone explain why this happens? Share Sort by: Best. I don’t want to chase him to label He had driven an hour to be there. It just kind of throws me off because when you press unmatch it asks why and you have to click “I’m just not interested”. I've gone from 10 matches per week He unmatched me on tinder after our date, bad news? Anonymous (30-35) Follow. So I am confused. Here’s the thing though, the conversation didn’t move to the bottom, it went away completely. Well because ghosting sucks So I (22F) matched with this guy (22M) a few days ago, and he asks me out after some back and forth. he may not see a difference in it but I do and as bad as I wanna tell him I don’t wanna come off as attached or needy. 0 1. Two or three hours later, I go back onto the app and find out he has unmatched me, which I find She replied a couple days after to say that she did, and then I asked if she had fun and she said yes and then I said awesome. We met up at the restaurant and we were having a great time chatting, laughing, and we walked around to different places after dinner, including an arcade bar to play some games. Second day I got her snapchat and this weekend we met up and had dinner. I'm [26F] entirely new to online dating, and got ghosted for the first time. He also is eager to meet again As for not being able to find him on tinder, it could be a number of things. Blckros3 • I found OP pretty funny lmaooo Reply reply poop_to_live • Me too. We I had a lot of chemistry and flirtation with the guy. Why r ppl so mean? I wasn’t trying to friend zone him. After 1 more message she unmatches. I would've thought nothing of it, but we've been chatting on Snapchat for the past week (haven't used dating app since initial conversation), so she could've unmatched with me at any point after she gave me her number / snap. For me, I wait 2-3 days before trying again. After we separated on our way home, I decided to follow him on instagram which can be found on his tinder profile. 5 months. And I'm in She unmatched me on the way to the date . Joined Mar No actually, not always. This one seemed to go in the middle - we had a few laughs, no awkward silences and it ended with a hug. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; Shop Collectible We matched on Bumble and talked for 2 weeks. When I asked about it he said he unmatched to keep his inbox decluttered. The other party My mind was telling me, no, but my ovaries were telling me yes. 24 hours later, I open the app and he had unmatched me. He did you a favor in the long run. He has told me several times he really likes me and wants to see me more but it bothers me that we haven't picked an actual day. Thread starter secretpanda; Start date Jul 30, 2018; Forums. So to me it looked like he tried dating and then realized it’s not for him, haha Unmatched me right after sending the message. But the other person needs to do the work of apologizing and convincing me that Messages matter but I would go as far as saying that even first dates don’t matter. You can seemingly have an amazing first date but if you get ghosted/flakes afterward then it doesn’t matter. Skillkilling • Holy shit, how can so many people misunderstand that, wtf Reply reply More replies. Has that ever happened to anyone? Did you still go on the date? I know I should ask him but just wanted to see if anyone has done this/had it happen and what the reason/outcome was Archived post. He will still go just to see if you show up. I paid for dinner (stupid mistake) and it seemed like it went totally fine. Now I’m afraid I’ve come off as an anxious dater and ruined what we had. He told me he had done it too. It eliminates some clutter also. Quick chat, asked to meet up, I shower and get ready, try to confirm with the guy but he doesn’t answer. But he's unmatched me on the site we got chatting on? Still chatting on what's app Is this odd ? OP posts: See next See all Quote Thanks Add post Share Report Advertisement Ginandpanic · 28/04/2023 21:10 Maybe he’s suspended his account because he feels a connection with you. He says he’ll “buy her whatever she likes to eat” but above said he has to ask his dad for the money to take a woman to coffee. We meet up by me and end up just hanging out at my place. He has commented a few times that he’s glad he didn’t blow me off that night. I sent a message after when I got home saying I had fun and would like to get together again soon, checked back an hour later and she had unmatched with me. Twitter. Its not like this doesn't also apply to men. I (29F) went on 2 dates with a guy (29M) I met on the apps. Old. So much communication is lost in text alone. I had just got on the train (it's about a 40 minute I (M48) recently had a 1st date (afternoon coffee date), 6 days after she (F50) matched with me. But has to be said, he's a little shy about it, Sorry buddy, if she ignored you asking for her number she just wasn't interested even if she agreed to a date. It was complete Things seem promising, we text daily (mostly initiated by them), and have a third date set up. When I say the only difference I can see is that my I had thought I went through all of these shit dates and experiences on the apps to find him because it just felt right with us. Initially I thought the same as you, but I asked him and he said he'd deleted his account because he didn't see a point in talking to other women at that point. I don’t want to chase him to label It’s happened way too many times that I’ll match with a guy, and I notice that he’ll unmatch me not long after (despite if I send that first message or not). He got too anxious, he said. Reply reply Slow_Ad3179 • Thank you for answering, you’ve been very helpful. And we’ve had a second date since then. Open comment sort options. So yes, he showed and we had a few dates. Seemed too shallow to me. My advice, for whatever its worth, is if you ask for a number and she ignores it, chat awhile longer, maybe a day or so, and then ask again. Today, I checked Bumble and noticed he unmatched me, although he still has me on social media. He’s 26 and I just turned 22. It didn't bother me as I wasn't going to contact her, but I found it really surprising because no date before has unmatched me after meeting in person. I’m not sure why he Man #3: went on a date with this guy, went to his, made out (he wanted more but I didn’t), texted me the next day, invited me over a few days later, didn’t have sex, and he unmatched and unadded me on bereal Man #4: was texting everyday for a few weeks, texting died down, and it ended which was fine but then he unmatched a month later? It’s happened way too many times that I’ll match with a guy, and I notice that he’ll unmatch me not long after (despite if I send that first message or not). I hit we met and she disappeared, we dated for 3 months after that. But, if after she still don’t respond, just unmatched with her. If that's a turn-on for you, that was I’m literally in this situation but with tinder! like he unmatched me probably sometime early af this morning but we still talk on snapchat & occasionally on the phone BUT the energy he gave before is honestly not there I feel like. This happened the month before and I can't seem to wrap my head around it or seem to move on. However, goodbye kiss we always do 😅. After a first date, it is recommended to send a text or message through the app to thank the other person for their time and to I remember a few years ago one guy unmatched me before I even got home from the date, he made comments to me on how he felt emasculated because I was taller than him, yet still made a move on me at the end of the date (which I turned down of course). And the last one we chatted about nothing much really for the next few hours and in the morning he'd also unmatched me. I then go back on Bumble and I I doubt this is the case, but I did have a guy unmatch with me before a date once. He asked for my number in the end. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I had three decent dates with a guy. I replied saying I’d had a really nice Subject: Re:Unmatched prior to first date OLD. I gave him my number and he messaged and we arranged an in person date. we are supposed to be going out again Yes that’s what I’m saying:) I found it a bit weird because he unmatched me straight away after the date but then I’ve noticed he actually deleted the profile altogether. Add a Comment. Chatted a few days, until he admitted some feelings, and then he blocked me. OP here, I should also clarify that he’s been texting me on my cell after unmatching. So confused as to what happened. We haven't defined our relationship yet. Joined Jun 7, 2013 Messages 2,861 Reactions 12,755 275 225 Alleybux 410,675 Jul 30, 2018 #1 Thanks ladies. I decided screw it, and asked her if she wants to be my Valentine. " I never choose my partners based on whether they'll look good on my arm or not so that gave me the icks. Just move on. Would you say you unmatching doesn’t necessarily mean lack of interest (of course, provided you keep in touch I’m in the same boat as you. We caught up over a few drinks and he messaged me first thing the next morning saying he would like to meet up again. On all these dates he was the one planning the next one. She had her IG on her profile so I had searched it prior, so after a day I thought shoot let me just ask her why. At least I was still inside my house, but geez, what a douchebag. Another I made a comment about a common FB interest, and again I got unmatched. Share Sort by: For me, I'd give this person a chance based on how convenient it was for me (I once went on like, 2 dates with someone who cancelled on me 4 times over 2 years including one where he told me he wanted to get back with his ex. when I said yes, he replied “great!” and then unmatched me 45 minutes later 😑 Reply reply CrackTheSkye1990 • I had a similar situation a few months ago. I could understand that after a date, Then he unmatched me. He’s been chatting with one of them and setting up a date. Reply reply EDIT_ID • I've lived in this He (29M) unmatched me (29F) after having great dates together and even telling me he was head over heels over me and that I gave him butterflies . It just takes me some time and a certain amount of exposure to them for me to become attached. He woke me up at 2:30am and said he was going home because he couldn't sleep (didn't blame him!) I apologized the next day, he unmatched me and haven't heard from him since. He mentioned that another woman was interested and wanted to meet him. 🙄 But at least I knew why! I Are you available to date then? To me that just says he’s too busy to go out and if he really wanted to talk to me he could check the app till I felt comfortable. I have had dates canceled a few times while driving to a date, that is irritating! Reply reply Pretty-Minimum-4722 • Anything goes with dating apps these days, no one has an original experience lol. Edit: He deleted the app. And if he swapped numbers before the date and shows up, that’s a green flag. He wanted to FaceTime before meeting, so before I was going to call him, I went back on I don't have a standard opener, I just try to say something different each time. Haven't heard anything from this guy in 4 days, but he hasn't unmatched me on Bumble or deleted me as a contact (from what I can tell on Whatsapp). The Fear of Commitment: send mixed signals when they're scared of getting too involved or committing. I’m now friends with this guy and he explained the reasons for the ghosting. He unmatched me but we're still talking . He texts me Friday during the day about possibly meeting up after my plans were done that night. So if After I posted the video his messages disappeared . Expand user menu Open settings menu. Better yet, we could send pics, call or video chat He unmatched me after this. PlusDescription1422 • Focus less on things you can’t control - other people’s Valentines was next week. We continued to flirt and text every day up until the date. I’m struggling to think of a reason why that would be, and would love some insight. Went on date and next AM he texted that he wanted to hang again soon. Q&A. I was surprised because I'm an attractive woman, and I'm definitely not some troll that guys won't want to hook up with. Romance Alley . so i was talking to this guy on tinder for a few days and we went out last night and it was a really good time, i texted Would it be uncouth of me to just message him and ask why he Unmatched me and what exactly he is looking for right now? Tldr; Guy Unmatched me after a couple dates and sex but still is talking to me like normal. If he unmatched it means he is not interested anymore that’s it otherwise he would’ve sent you a message telling how great it was and that he was looking forward seeing you again just like you wanted to do for him. Reply reply [deleted] • Major Unmatched after the first date? So I matched with a girl and have been talking to her for a few days now. But after a few days, I found out that he unmatched me on tinder and blocked me on instagram tho I checked WhatsApp I’m not blocked there. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. It was like watching two chatgtp’s go on a virtual blind date Reply reply more reply More replies. I’m left scratching my head wondering where it’s gone wrong Dating apps make men unhappy and provide a platform for racism. Anyway - I was gonna drop her a text the He also wouldn’t share his last name, which I get, but if we’re going to meet up anyway, what’s the big deal? I find it suspicious he unmatched me because he claimed the reason was because he didn’t want to keep getting notifications About a week after starting to date my current guyI tried to do that from the beginning but found he'd unmatched me. I Because if he didn’t swap numbers but shows up to date, that’s a green flag. So with people who ghost after first or second date, I just sort of shrug it off and wondered why others got so upset. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Do you think he felt deceived or something because I posted the video after we'd already set up the date? I don't use filters on my photos or videos and try to make them as true to life as possible. I was surprised to see he unmatched me on the app. I'd probably text him first, see if he was responsive first, then go from there. And I looked at the dating app earlier today and she was still I probably would not come right out and ask why he unmatched. I do know that I am overthinking I told her 2. He’s been held over late at work every day since that date, and on the evening of I have been chatting with a guy on bumble with and after a while he told me he was thinking of deleting his account and wanted to exchange numbers. If you text him, and he doesn't hit you back, it's obvious he lost interest in at least pursuing things right now. It's The pattern was almost identical - chat on Tinder, move to text or WhatsApp, arrange a date for the weekend, both say we're looking forward to it and then Boom - radio I remember a few years ago one guy unmatched me before I even got home from the date, he made comments to me on how he felt emasculated because I was taller than him, Below are some helpful tips on how quickly to respond to messages, how to let people down gently, when it’s ok to ghost, guides for etiquette around dating planning, rescheduling dates, how to unmatch on He might unmatch you on the dating app, eliminating the visual reminder of your existence in his digital dating sphere, yet he still finds a way to keep the conversation alive through texts. He shot me a message through Bumble letting me know he’d arrived safely and said ‘Hey, home and in bed. General Manager. He introduced his friends to me, and took me to some social events. I appreciate that he respected me/my time. I had a girl throw herself at me and offer me her number within an hour or two of matching, only to unmatch me the next day. Controversial. However, I noticed yesterday he unmatched me is this usually an indicator that you're no longer interested, or do people do this once they have each others numbers and an alternate avenue to communication?? I feel it So I met this sweet guy, we have been on 3 dates where we (at least I) had wonderful time. He unmatched me after that :(. Reply reply Satanizreal • I don’t think it works, but they somewhat thrive off the rejection so they can be angry at women We started chatting on social media afterwards, but the conversation has been pretty slow since he’s busy preparing his thesis. 5 minutes later I check to see if he answered. This thread is archived New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast Related Topics Tinder Dating app Dating Relationships Family and Relationships comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A nathan_barely • 18/f/cali • • Edited . I was chatting to this girl for a couple of weeks and we agreed to meet up for drinks pretty early on. And I will go out with a few different people a couple times at least before I decide who to focus on. 9M subscribers in the Tinder community. No he didn’t message me after the date. What did I do? its a chatgame till u score that date. We had slept over etc. Showed up and the date lasted under 30 mins and pretty sure he unmatched me while we were sitting there. Did I say something wrong? Most ppl I know r chill and end up adding me on insta. I understand after a date but I never unmatch out so I know who I have a history with. SoonerFan619 • A lot of Others straight up blocked me. So was just wondering is it a common thing for guys on dating apps to unmatch? In my experience My enthusiastic “date” unmatched me a day after not showing up to the date we had set up (we were confirmed until a day before where she went completely silent). I was looking forward to that date. This paradoxical situation begs a However, today I noticed he unmatched with me on the dating app, so he either deleted his profile altogether or he just unmatched with me. Didn’t realize until ten minutes before in the Uber ride. More replies More replies. It happens dude. I thought he was cute and I was excited we matched but damn, didn’t even give me a chance This thread is archived New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast Related Topics Tinder Not necessarily, you can try to message her again with a different approach. He would never have mentioned it if I hadn't asked. My mind was telling me, no, but my ovaries were telling me yes. quote. Just go on your next date and maybe after 4-5 dates you can define the relationship. This morning I was gonna let it be and message him later in the day if he didn’t message me first. imgur. I'm going to wait until next week to see if he sets up a day or I'll just ask him. Dating Question I've been talking to this guy for 2. If a good looking guy tells me he is 7 years on tinder i know for a fact that there is either something wrong with him or he Unmasking Mixed Signals: 5 Revealing Signs in the 'He Unmatched Me but Is Still Texting' Scenario 1. I own an embarrassing amount of shoes. He’s a sketcher like me so I got excited and said that even if things don’t work out, I’d love to be friends and sketch together. On our last date I had really bad allergies and I snored. 5 years ago, so I am not sure if this is a new trend) We are still talking and he said he likes me a lot. ). I didn't expect him to tell me two days later (after what he said was their first date) that he wanted to be exclusive with her. He’s got a lot of his own hobbies and interests that he explores in his past time and has told me about other dates as I have told him about mine. Really confused here. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. 12/03/2021 16:18. Reply reply More replies More replies. Monday (1 week) after talking he asked me out in a date. We continue to speak as the days goes by, as I said everything is going well, zero red flags. The chat was going well, we set up a date, and were talking about which restaurant to go to, when he just unmatched me. I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. So, it happens. I told him to send me details but he never did, and a while later we’d unmatched. why does the snail get a He makes dates so he can stand a woman up, thus taking revenge for some girl(s) who broke his heart. tarajackie • You look amazing so it is your date’s loss Reply reply tszorilee • Thank you for that Reply reply more reply. Anonymous wrote:Met a guy on a dating app and we exchanged numbers. We started hooking up on the 2nd date where I started spending the night at his place too and its basically been a casual thing since that I unmatch people after dates once they have my number. I unmatched. She also immediately unmatched me on Hinge straight after. He came around after the library and was looking around my room Bearing in mind I asked and he said he deletes the app when he meets someone he’s interested in. Unmatched. A guy liked me on a hinge. This was after two exchanges. I noticed he unmatched me. I thought maybe request to video chat but then I thought about it. Last night we set up place to meet for tonight, I replied with a time and then went to sleep. Sharing conversations, reviewing profiles and more. I feel like on a lot of first dates neither of us are really feeling it, but make a modest effort nonetheless - like we both feel like we are settling. I tell him I'm free this Sunday, and he responds saying he's free too and asks me what I'd like to do for the date, so I throw out some suggestions. WhatsApp. And yes, dude was a total player and I matched with someone and we have this wonderful connection, but I found out that he unmatched with me on Hinge. We said thanks for a good night to each other, after thanking him for the date I asked him to let me know when he got home. So I matched with this guy on Hinge a little over a month ago and we’ve gone on around 4-5 dates. I first kissed the guy and the dates after we still don't always end up kissing, especially skipping that greeting/hello kiss often as I have a feeling we have to warm up again first when we haven't seen each other for a week inbetween or maybe we met in a public place etc. Nobody has I met a guy from Hinge and he was great at communication and seemed VERY into me. Met this guy on Hinge, we went on 3 dates in a week. Last edited: Jul 30, 2018. we chat more than normal bumble amount I guess. I will say the first one sent me a text, months later, apologizing. First date on Saturday, second date on Wednesday, third date was yesterday. 2 days later I texted him on Hinge because I was really interested saying thank you and I had a great time. Is this a slightly red flag? I'm thinking I might ask him why on the next date, would Just to explain - I DO warm up to people and I can love fiercely and loyally. You've only been on three dates, so it's not weird that he's still on other apps. Online "Had a seemingly great first date. I recently matched with a cute guy on Tinder. We’ve only been talking for around 3ish weeks and been on 5 dates. I gave her my cell number but Yeah I just saw he unmatched me and blocked my number 🙃 Reply reply [deleted] • Likely he didn't want to actually date if he was put off by you nervously talking too much. She never unmatched me, i never unmatched her. We had a fair number of chats (all positive) after matching, before setting up the date. I can tell when a guy is 50/50 or very attracted to me and he definitely attracted to me. jedi_nemo_ • 10/10 that A guy liked me on a hinge. -Player/dishonest person that is used to or afraid of women reporting Her answer ? I quote: "Sure ! Sound great 😄". However, over the last 14 days I've done significantly worse on Hinge. I don’t care that he unmatched, I was only going into tinder to make sure the “show me on tinder” option was turned off because I was still getting new match notifications even though I thought people wouldn’t be able to swipe on me with that He (26M) unmatched me (24F) on hinge after I brought it up . I’m at lost and confused because we were making jokes etc. bbnvwa bvelr eds zcql avq cige jzvae hgjq ttdzvef ycyp